Life in the Mouth

While working as a dental hygienist, I looked into a lot of mouths.  Although at that time  it didn’t seem funny,  I remember two particular patients that I chuckle about now.  Of course, the humor might only be appreciated by those who have worked in a dental office.  One day I was running late with my afternoon appointments. I looked at the book with encouragement, noting that my next patient was a teenage boy, and not an adult. Adults generally take longer because of possible issues with gum problems. So, I was beginning to relax, thinking I could get back on schedule. Well, I was wrong.  Words can not describe how I felt as I looked into this young man’s mouth. Not only was he wearing full orthodontic metal braces, but he had decided, just before coming in for his dental appointment, that a juicy orange would be a good snack. Without being too descriptive, taking orange pulp off metal brackets takes a long time.

Another time, an elderly man came in as a new patient. I introduced myself and seated him in the chair. I then turned my back on him, as I began setting up the paper work to record his patient history.  However, he had decided it was time to begin work right away, because as I turned in my chair to ask my first question, he had already dislodged his upper denture and it was resting on his extended tongue. He sat there, in that position, with his eyes closed waiting on me to retrieve his denture and start cleaning his remaining teeth in his lower jaw.

I’ve learned to appreciate a healthy mouth, after seeing so many afflicted by tooth aches, disease, malformations, or injuries. This is not an appeal to brush and floss your teeth, although that isn’t a bad idea. 🙂  I want to focus on the mouth because there is an important link between a healthy mouth and our well-being, physically, emotionally and spiritually.

Regarding physical significance, when food enters the mouth, the digestive process begins. The mouth contributes to our musical ability, as we sing, hum, and whistle.  By using our lips, we can kiss, blow, bite, and spit.   A damaged or malformed mouth can cause someone to battle with how they view themselves. Dental health impacts the cardiovascular system, our immune system, our ability to support healthy weight, and our enjoyment while dining.

Emotionally, our words, and the tone of those words, display to the world, what is inside us. I heard it said  years ago, and I say it often, to remind myself of this truth, “what is in the well, will come up in the bucket”. If there is anger in our hearts, it will slip past our teeth with the least provocation. If there is bitterness, it will ooze out of our mouth like slime, covering those around us, our situation and our environment. If there is unforgiveness,  our words will sound harsh, brassy and sharp. When hatred is felt,  there is potential for violent, harmful thoughts to be propelled by our tongue, and out of our mouth. People will often interpret our personality by observing our mouth, labeling us with terms like friendly, shy, quiet, loud. Our mouth can show when we are fearful, stressed, in pain, or in trouble.  We can frown and pout and do various other forms of expressions to convey our emotions.

Getting to the spiritual aspect of the mouth, a heart where the love of God resides has the potential to offer words of  love in many flavors : merciful, gracious, forgiving, healing, comforting, affirming, encouraging, edifying, uplifting, blessing and understanding.  The  words we speak change lives, ours and others.

Scripture gives us some promises about the words we utter:

Proverbs 18:20-21 (AMP)20 A man’s [moral] self shall be filled with the fruit of his mouth; and with the consequence of his words he must be satisfied [whether good or evil].21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and they who indulge in it shall eat the fruit of it [for death or life].

Proverbs 11:11 (AMP)11 By the blessing of the influence of the upright and God’s favor [because of them] the city is exalted, but it is overthrown by the mouth of the wicked.

Proverbs 12:18 (AMP)18 There are those who speak rashly, like the piercing of a sword, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.

How many blessings are we missing by speaking with hopeless, faithless and lifeless words?  How many times do we experience lost opportunities to see God’s favor surround us, when we need it the most, because we speak with unbelief? How would our world look if we spoke the words God leads us to speak, with His wisdom, His heart, and His compassion? How many times have we failed to speak in a way that would encourage, uplift or bless others?

Biblical guidelines for speaking are not merely suggestions to be taken lightly.

Ephesians 4:29 (AMP)29 Let no foul or polluting language, nor evil word nor unwholesome or worthless talk [ever] come out of your mouth, but only such [speech] as is good and beneficial to the spiritual progress of others, as is fitting to the need and the occasion, that it may be a blessing and give grace (God’s favor) to those who hear it.

Ephesians 5:4 (AMP)Let there be no filthiness (obscenity, indecency) nor foolish and sinful (silly and corrupt) talk, nor coarse jesting, which are not fitting or becoming; but instead voice your thankfulness [to God].

James 1:19-27 (AMP)19 Understand [this], my beloved brethren. Let every man be quick to hear [a ready listener], slow to speak, slow to take offense and to get angry.

Healthy life, physically, emotionally and spiritually begins in our hearts, and is evidenced by our mouths. We, His Body, can impact the world by allowing Him to reign in our hearts and letting His words flow from our mouths. We all face this battle with our tongue, and James states that no man can tame it. These verses urge me to weigh my words more carefully.  By allowing the Holy Spirit to reign in our heart, we are filled with Him and He enables us to speak words that bless and heal.

For a long time, I never really considered that words mattered. After all, everyone is entitled to say what they think and feel. Yes, this is true, but is everything I think and feel honoring to God and to those around me? This has become such a tangible lesson for me.  God has allowed me to see the hurt felt by others from my words, and to experience how other’s  words have hurt me. There is overwhelming frustration as I reflect back over all the useless and unloving words that have come out of my mouth. My only encouragement is knowing the Lord’s forgiveness, and that He is able to redeem and restore. It is never to late to learn what the Holy Spirit is willing to teach, and to expect Him to change, within me, what is not pleasing to God.

connecting, with love

Donna

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8 thoughts on “Life in the Mouth

  1. For me it was more the hurt my thoughts could have inflicted, and the hurt my attitude WAS inflicting today, because of words from another that hurt me. Even if I didn’t actually speak those thoughts aloud, they were perceived by those around me through my actions. Bummer that I wear my feelings on my shirtsleeve like that instead of praying and asking for help. I’m sure that I was at fault in the first place – and then I should have accepted responsibility instead of getting my dander up. Will I ever learn this lesson this side of heaven???

    • LubbyGirl, you have spelled out my issues too. I wish I could pretend, so I would have time to pray and let God straighten me out before I broadcast my attitudes and feeling. My facial expressions and body language tell it all, for the world to see. My only consolation is that maybe because someone has seen my emotional and spiritual gyrations, they will learn from my mistakes. However, I too want to learn this lesson quicker than my departure to heaven. One day…..LubbyGirl…. one day, by the grace of God!

  2. Hi Donna I will get back to you and respond on your message but need to let you know that I’m sorry but I can’t leave a Like because your Page has a error on it, Wayne my Computer Tech, is checking it out, you are not the only one that has this bug, it seems to be with quite a few I visit, perhaps I should do a Post about this, so people will be warned,

    Lady Dei said yesterday others are having the same problem with the Likes. It seems to be a plug which means it may be deliberate, I will let you know after Wayne contacts me and if it’s possible will also explain how you can debug it, but no doubt it would be a good idea to let WordPress Support know too so they can check it out for you, as it is not my Blog I can’t do this.

    Christian Love Anne.

  3. Hi Donna, it is strange that we have this Problem with the Like button together with your message. I remember when I first started Blogging I said to someone that I felt they were not needed as they were glorifying man but later realised they were a way to encourage and uplift others as God asks us to do and as you shared, as well as take an interest in what interests them, like the Awards do, which yes some reject too for the same reason I did at first. I apologised to this person who I must of hurt as he seemed to value them greatly and I too have appreciated using them when in agreement with someone’s message.

    Your message brought home that we can uplift or pull down with our words but we also need to forgive those who upset us and not hold onto bitterness and resentment, it just eats us away. We also remember, when we stand up for God’s Truth we will offend some, Jesus tells us there will come a time when we will be Martyred for doing so. Truth only hurts when people are in error.

    The Scriptures also tell us God does not agree with evil, it’s not His will for us to hurt anyone for worldly reasons or for them to hurt us but we can learn through what ever we experience in life like you shared when people hurt us or when we hurt them, Jesus is also hurt.

    You of course would agree Donna that Teeth masticate our food and give us nourishment, When the Scripture talks about Teeth such as in Song of Solomon, they are referring to Spiritual nourishment, pearls of wisdom, not teeth as we know them, when our focus is worldly and so of the flesh, we loose our nourishment from God or you could say our teeth.

    We all have emotions they are God given but He tells us not to sin in our anger, it is not a sin to have anger but it can lead to it, depending what we do about it.

    I really enjoyed your message Donna it got me thinking and I very much valued the Scripture you shared, thank you.

    Christian Love from both of us – Anne.

    • Anne, I love the way you continued to expound on this post! God’s truth has so many layers and depths to find, and no one person can express it all. It takes the Body of Christ working together, listening and proclaiming what they hear in the quiet of their time with the Lord, speaking it out from the housetops and blogs, and etc. This exchange of thoughts does indeed build us up in Him, and also makes us united before the lost world, which is a far more effective witness of His love and glory. as always…love you….Donna

  4. Sorry Donna, I could not leave a Like, Technial problems can be a real nuisance, things are just not made to last today, I would try WordPress again if I was you, they will get back to you, they do try their best to help but there are so many Blogs and some staff are only new, takes time for them to learn all that is needed.

    I will be back later and respond to your reply, when you have more who comment we will not be able to keep sharing on the same post you will be too busy.

    Christian Love Anne.

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